Breaking Up With Your Girlfriend

Sin is kind of love, you fall in love with it. You get addicted to it and this passage is really about a competition of love because you love this pleasure and you love this sin. You don’t wanna let go because it will make you sad. On the other hand Allah is saying I will replace that fulfillment with myself. I will replace it with my company Allah is offering you. And you have to decide this equation for yourself. You gonna be put in that situation and nobody will know that the struggle is happening in your head. Nobody will know, only Allah will know. Only Allah will know and by the way some of you guys are for example in haram relationship, I don’t know I’m not accusing you. Some people, not you. Some people, that you know and you’re in a inappropriate relationship and you’re try to break it off. So you heard this talk and texted her “I can’t do this anymore” and she write back, What? You don’t love me? Oh, you hate me now? Oh, you think I’m the reason you’re going to hell? I’m so evil? And now you’re like, No you’re not that evil. No but I do love you, you’re not bad at all, you’re great. Um, ok fine you really wanna end it with me see me tonight and end it to my face. No I can’t do that, fine you hate me, ok I’m coming and it starts over again. Then you wanna do tawbah later on.

You see, it not just you.

You might even emotionally sucked into something and now you’re being emotionally blackmailed. You are made to feel bad. You have fight that, you have to overcome it. And you have to recognize that you might disappoint someone but you’re making Allah happy. You’re doing that not just for yourself, but you are also doing it for the girl who’s texting you back or the guy who’s texting you back. texting you back. You don’t want them standing in front of Allah also you just save them too. If you really love them didn’t just lust them but you love them then wanna save them too. This is for them also, you understand that?

Lastly, stay positive and keep moving guys. <3